Q: I’m a 19-year-old bisexual woman really into orgasm denial and edging. With the recent Tumblr ban on all NSFW content, I have no idea where to indulge my kinks and find my community. I’ve never needed to go anywhere else to find porn, explore my sexuality, and be surrounded by supportive people—and now I’m at a loss. A few Google searches have been really disheartening. Clearly I’ve been spoiled by all the easily found porn made by women, for women on Tumblr. Hell, I’m used to it being made by bisexuals, for bisexuals. I feel like I’m 15 again, desperately scouring the internet for anything that applies to me. Please tell me where I can find my porn!—Missing My Porn Community
Luckily, MMPC, the men and women who created and/or curated the content
that spoke to you and affirmed your identity didn’t evaporate on December
17, the day Tumblr’s porn ban went into effect. Many have taken their
clips, captions, GIFs, and erotic imaginations to other platforms and some
are creating new platforms.
Shortly after getting the news that he was HIV+, Cheves started an
educational queer sex blog. “I answer sex questions from anyone who writes
in—I stole the idea from you, Dan, to be honest,” said Cheves. “I wanted to
reach those kids in the middle of nowhere, kids like me.”
A. I’ve strolled around half a dozen straight swinger spaces—more than the average homo—and the standard for consent at each one I visited can be summed up in four words: Ask before you touch. My visits to straight swinging events/spaces/parties were strictly for research purposes, it should go without saying, but I’m saying it anyway: I went only to observe. And at one party, I observed a man attempt to enter a scene he hadn’t been invited to join—by placing his hand on a woman’s leg. The leg-touching creep was promptly ejected for violating the club’s rules about consent, which all attendees were informed of in advance and agreed to adhere to once inside the club.
